Have you heard the saying “those who want to do something find a way and those who don’t find an excuse”? We can relate these words to our happiness as well. Those who truly want to be happy or happier and are seeking ways in which to be so will identify with the information on this site and practice the principles suggested. Those who are seeking help yet still holding on to their self-will or those who are skeptical, will tend to compare, not identify. Let me explain further. Read more…
- Author: Alan A
All or Nothing
This site contains many posts on varying topics. There may be more than one post about a particular topic, discussing different aspects of that topic. You may be reading a post about anger and not identify with it. You may think that the views expressed are all wrong or maybe you just can’t get your head around whatever it is that I am talking about. But there may be other posts about anger that you may find incredibly useful. Or you may be enlightened by seventy-five percent of the post and not like the remaining twenty-five percent. The point is you don’t have to make the use of this site an all or nothing matter. Life is not usually black or white, it’s usually gray. Read more…
- Author: Alan A
The Key to Change

I would imagine that if you’ve found this site through your own means, there’s a decent chance that you would like to be happier. If someone else sent you a link to this site, then maybe they want you to be happier
Do you think it’s possible that you can be any happier? Maybe you are very unhappy now and believe that you’re destined to a life of doom and gloom. Although I do not believe that any of you are alone in your feelings, different readers will be coming from different starting points. So what does it take to be happy anyway? No matter how happy or unhappy you may presently be, if you want to change, there are a couple of key ingredients that you’ll need to possess.
